& when you did absolutely nothing wrong and you know this time it’s not your fault, you still call and text and try your best to repair the damage that’s been done.
The Voice!!! What team are you?
I simply said I miss you, no one was around but I was thinking about you and it was meant for you.
Hey my LDR boyfriend and I write every day and send hearts and all the stuff but when I ask him to skype he is always so strange. ( I know he really exist because I met him on vacation) But he said that he would like to skype with me so I ask him sometimes if we can but then he said that he can´t because he haven´t time etc. So I don´t want to ask him every Month. He also block this theme up. Please help me.
Talk to him. Really talk to him. I honestly think it’s as simple as that. With your situation I feel like there might be something much deeper going on with your boyfriend than him just not wanting to Skype with you. Honestly from my own experiences with different guys in my life I’ve noticed they really aren’t the best when it comes to communication. In my honest opinion if this is something that’s really bothering you and it’s something you keep thinking about then be upfront with him and maybe you guys can talk it out and really figure out how to move forward. Communication is so important especially in a long distance relationship so really just try to remember that and I hope you and your boyfriend can solve this issue and move forward. Good luck.
My LDR boyfriend and i broke up and got back together. And promised he would srop lying..but he lied to me last night about letting a girl sleep in his bed. I was gonna leave but he started crying so i didnt. I just dont know what to do.
Quick story, when you sent this message I was talking to my fiance on Skype and I heard my phone beep so I read your message and he told me to read it to him and I did and his exact words were “if a relationship is filled with nothing but lies then I wouldn’t even consider it a relationship. She deserves better and you need to let her know that.” So I’m agreeing with my man and I’m gonna say that you are way to pretty to be lied to and you do deserve way better. I swear sometimes it’s the prettiest girls who have such a jerk for a boyfriend. Ok so what I think is that there are people who don’t give second chances in relationships. It’s like if it didn’t work out the first time then that’s it, they don’t bother trying again. Then there are people like you who can give second chances hoping that things will work out the second time around, sometimes they do and other times they don’t. I honestly don’t know all of the details of your relationship but from what you’ve said I just keep thinking well how much are you willing to take from him before you finally break? You said he started crying when you said you were gonna leave but honestly how many times have you cried because of his actions? And see the thing is that you guys are in a long distance relationship so I can’t even stress enough how important trust is in a situation such as this. I don’t know if you’ve read any other advice that I’ve given to other people, but something I do is I generally like to let whoever is asking for advice make the final decision and I really just give them my opinion and always tell them that they don’t have to take it, but I have to be completely honest with you because if I was in your situation and he did the same thing a second time then I would realize that he’s someone who has some serious issues with himself and that’s something that he needs to work on. I need you to really think about yourself because you don’t deserve to be hurt or lied to and I keep saying that but it’s so true. I’m just really scared that he may hurt you again. Regardless of what you decided to do I’m here for you and always be strong. Don’t ever hesitate to message me for any reason.
So my LDR girlfriend told me she would talk to me today when she has time but she hasnt texted or called all day, yet she is always on facebook and twitter. I dont know what to think anymore and i am starting to feel worthless again. Please help
First of all you should never let anyone make you feel like you’re worthless. I don’t care who it is. You’re not worthless, they are. I’m really sorry that your girlfriend is treating you this way and it’s almost like I can feel your pain. I’m gonna give you some advice that you probably wouldn’t expect to hear from someone like me and I really don’t want you to misinterpret what I’m trying to say. I think that it would be best for you to kind of pull back from your girlfriend. Now in no way am I telling you to break up with her, what I mean by pull back is kind of slowly stop talking to her less and less each day because honestly sometimes the best way to get through to someone who is hurting you and treating you a certain way is to play the same game and show them what they’re doing to you. Sometimes in a relationship there will be one partner who literally carries the entire relationship, like they do all the calling and texting and everything while the other partner is kind of in his/her own world. Another thing you can do is always just be upfront to her and say “hey look I feel like you’re treating me this way and I feel neglected——-” and so on. So really you can just tell her how you feel and if she’s willing to talk to you and change then that’s great, but if things don’t go how you want when you talk then you might just have to just put yourself first and think about what’s best for you. Overall I feel like with your situation you can approach it many ways, but what’s most important to me is that you NEVER let anyone make you feel worthless about yourself. Always stay strong and I’m here for you, sometimes I may not reply back right away but no matter what I ALWAYS reply back in the end. Good luck!
i'm starting to catch feelings for someone who i can't see myself in a relationship with. So, I did wants best and ended things with him. Now, it's all I can think about. How do I get over this?
Walking away can sometimes be the best thing to do in a situation but no one ever said it was an easy thing to do. In my personal opinion I feel like you made a smart move, you can’t see yourself with this person so you cut things off before they went to far. I think what you’re going through right now is maybe just thinking about all of the what if’s. By that I mean you’re at a point right now where you keep thinking what if you continued on with him? what if you didn’t let him go? things like that. I really think what can help you is if you keep reminding yourself what you did was for the best I know it can be hard because you may have a million thoughts running through your head but just the fact alone that you made a decision like that really shows how strong of a person you are. I’ve known people in situations similar to this but what they did was they kept the relationship going even though they never wanted to be with that person and so people ended up getting hurt and everything became a big mess. I’m a very strong believer of when someone makes a big decision in their life or something that will impact them then they need to stick it out till the end. So really the best way to deal with this is just really have confidence in the decision you made and always remember that it was for the best. Good luck and stay strong!
Do you know how to twerk?
Well in order for me to know how I would need an ass first. Right now it looks like a pancake back there, but once I get one I’ll defiantly learn.
A phone conversation with a friend:
Friend- Hey do you wanna go out tonight?
Me- I can’t I’m studying
Friend- *hangs up*
I don't want to sound rude but y don't you talk about your man anymore? Im a long time follower and I noticed that you don't talk about him as much anymore. Are you guys broken up?
No we’re still together but to be honest we did get into a fight about a week ago and I haven’t talked to him at all since then. My relationship is far from perfect but my love for him will never change and he knows that. Me and him are people that live very busy lives on a day to day basis. He has work and a brother who just got married and I have work and school so talking on the phone or being on Skype for 9 hours isn’t something we can do right now. It would be awesome though. So yeah I hope I answered your question.
Where have you been?
Sick and also busy with school and work. If it’s not one thing it’s another, but I am trying to get back in the habit of blogging every single day.
Oh don’t mind him. He’s just a little mad because he actually thought you would stick around while he treated you like shit.
Would you rather get caught cheating or catch your boyfriend or girlfriend cheating?
I'm 15 my ldbf is 18 we met this summer when I went on vacation and met him when I came back he texted me a lot almost everyday then the msgs started getting shorter and less effort was put in now it's been over a week without him answering my text what should I do?
With your situation you can approach this so many different ways. Well first if you’re tired of the way he’s been acting and treating you lately you can either just say that you don’t have to put up with it and leave or give him space until he comes to you. Honestly I have so much of my friends that ask me what to do because their man is losing interest or not paying them any attention & I tell them that either they go talk to him and see why he’s acting like that towards them and maybe he has something going on with him and it’s much deeper then him just ignoring you, so from there you can talk it out with him or like I said earlier you can just give him space and let him come to you when he’s ready to talk. Both are good options and honestly you can even do both, if you want, you can talk to him first and if he still shuts you out then give him space, or leave him alone it’s up to you. Here’s what I know. We’re girls okay, we put up with so many things when it comes to the guy we love and we can’t help it because caring is in our nature. Just really think about how you want to approach him. I always say to anyone I give advice to that they should really think of all the different options and things they can do in their situation. So think first & then go ahead from there. It may be hard but you just have to stay strong through something like this. Good luck!